Motivation Psychology

Today I will start with a Quote written by me: "When you eliminate the word Negative from your Dictionary, All you will be left with Positivity". Life can be Harsh and sometimes even more difficult to handle. Even after following the Five Habits to Improve Life, We become unhappy and everything seems to be imperfect.  Always Remember, When life is challenging you make sure you are up for the challenge. It will give you the challenge every day. All you need to do is to fight the battle. Winning or losing is a part of nature. Sometimes we rock and sometimes we fail miserably. Be As stubborn as you are Improving Life Every day.  What to do when motivation is Gone? Follow these steps and you will be rising again. Think Less, Act More: The more you will think about something it will confuse you. When confusion hits it will give illusion which will not help you to act.     Stay Quiet: Be Silent as much as you can when someone is bashing you for your mistakes. List...

Sometimes we lack motivation in our life. It feels like nothing left in life and we get into Depression , Anxiety or Negative Thought. We lose Hope and command of the ship of our life. It gives a trembling shaky feeling. To overcome this I have some life changing Quotes for all of you:   " My focus is to forget the pain of life. Forget the pain, mock the pain, reduce it. And laugh." – Jim Carrey You cannot change your decision overnight, but you can change your direction overnight." – Jim Rohn “Every problem is a gift–without problems we would not grow.” – Tony Robbins “Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for.” –  Mark Manson “Take the stones people throw at you and use them to build a monument.” –   Robin Sharma "Once you know what failure feels like, determination chases success."  –  Kobe Bryant "As a leader, the first person I need to lead is me. The first person that I should try to change is me." –  John C. Maxwell "...

Life can be unpredictable. Success is a valuable thing which everyone wants in life. No Matter what your age is you will always look to be successful in your life. The way we deal with our failures defines the success of our life. Here are 5 ways how we can lead a successful life: Always Be Curious: You need to find a way to bring the curiosity in you if it is not present. The more curious you will be more you will gain knowledge. Don't settle until you are satisfied and you meet your hunger. Start improving your life and Stay hungry..!! Never Give up: Success cannot come in a single day. You need to be present every moment to grab the opportunity knocking at the door. Well if it doesn't come ?? Who cares?? Go and create some opportunities for yourself. Once you will learn the ART of not giving up in your life you will see wonders happening..!!   Find the secret to improve your life.   Positive thoughts: Once you will take the first step towards the goal of your ...

Today I will share an Incident about my Real Experience of Life: It was raining and I was stuck standing under a tree to save myself from rain water. When it started raining heavily I ran to a nearby shade to prevent myself from getting wet. Whenever the air was hitting the rain, some tiny droplets of water was coming over my face which was making me happy. I was cherished at that moment. There were few other peoples standing by my side waiting for the rain to get over. The  Fear  of getting cold and fever was not allowing me to the part of that wonderful rain. I was just enjoying those tiny droplets and was observing how everyone was getting frustrated. Cursing the rain every possible way. At the same moment a thought struck in my mind. Why Should I go in this beautiful rain and just be with it. I took a step forward and the Fear turned into Ecstasy. I danced with the rain and came back home refreshing all the childhood memories. What a feeling it was..!! Phenomenal..!! In th...

The route to success is hidden in our daily routine. Once there was a man and he was trying to break a big Rock and that rock was too big for him to break. He decided to break it anyway, no matter what. He started with a hammer and every day he used to visit at the same place and he was hitting very with his complete strength. He kept doing this every day for 2 hours and then make his way to his home in evening. Every one thought that he was insane who was trying to break this huge rock with a single hammer. Some ignored him, Some mocked him. But he was determined with his thoughts. Without stopping he continued this process for 2 months. And one day….. He went there and again he hit this time hard and guess what??? He rock was broken with a single hit. He was happy not surprised and every one who was present there was surprised and they just thought how can one break this huge rock with just one hit. They thought that he have some superpower inside him but only he knew the hard work, ...

Today I will give you five habits which helped me to improve my life. Finish what you started:  When I started my Job I wanted to be a hardcore Techie. I started exploring several new technologies and after few days I would jump to another technology leaving the earlier one. After Experimenting a lot I understood my work is to do complete my office hours, Read some books and write a lot. Decide your Fate:  Let me tell you how it goes. First you think of something, you start working on it and when you do not see any results quickly you switch your passion. Don’t get into this trap. Remember nothing comes in a day. Be a man of your words:  “I will be a ……” Game over man..!! There is no option of backing out. Remind yourself those words and work your ass hard to get that. Stay Quiet : Does it really matters when an dog barks at elephant ?? People will say you have gone crazy when you will try to get aside of the queue. They will throw their amazing vocabulary at you to disco...

Imagine you want a plant at your house. You don't know how to plant it but you want it badly in your balcony. You start a research how to plant a plant. You took the help from the internet, YouTube, ask the experienced one, gone through books and after days of research you now have knowledge of each and everything about planting a plant at home. Now you started implementation of your knowledge and keeping all the knowledge in mind you started to plant that plant. You are keeping a check on everything like keeping the soil moist, making sure that pot has a drainage hole, you are placing it near light etc. You gave your dedicated time and you took extra care to grow that plant. From your busy schedule you were able to give time to it just because you were passionate about it and after few months you were able to see the end results as growing the plant and flowers on it. You were delighted. Our life and dream are just like this plant only. Only mere knowledge will not help us to get ...

Books are probably the best friend in life. Books can help you to gain tremendous knowledge and will help you when no one can. If you’re afraid to fail, then you’re probably going to fail. - Kobe Bryant. I was a book lover until my school days. Whenever I get free time I used to read. Not just only syllabus books but also some novels and stories as well. Who knew things will change in college life. First time away from the home. Full Freedom, No one to answer or question. I did every damn wrong thing during my college days. I forgot that books exist in my life. I was in hostel and everyone knows what boys do in hostel and yes I was one of them. I never had the courage to admit it but today I am writing all these to make me remind what things I have done in my life. I lied to everyone who was close to me and was doing whatever I wanted without thinking anything. College over now it's corporate time. Somehow I got job but the habits never changed. Same procrastination, Same excuses. ...

“Become addicted to constant and never-ending self-improvement.” Anthony J. D’Angelo Self Improvement is the biggest gift that one can give to himself. The day you will start working on yourself you will see the priorities will change in your life and you will not longer be the same man as you were before. I will tell you a story about a farmer here. Here we go: Once there was a farmer who planted a mango tree in his farm. He was growing it from a seed so he was very cautious about it. He was taking care of it every single day. Months passed, years passed and after 7 complete years the tree was now completely grown and it was so huge that everyone from the village was having an eye on it. The farmer was happy that his hard work is now justified.Everyone now was waiting for the fruits and was thinking if the tree is so big then the fruits will be just amazing. The Season came and gone. No Mangoes…!!! This gave everyone a reason to laugh on the farmer. Some came to show consolation to h...

One day I was sitting in my balcony and a lot of thoughts were running in my mind. About my life, career and dreams. I was feeling frustrated and there was feeling of anxiety. Now the story begins: Work on yourself more than you do on your job - Jim Rohn Once I was lost in my thoughts I saw a little bird and it looks like that she was searching for something by looking everywhere. I started noticing the bird and in a blink of an eye she gathered some twigs in her mouth. Something like this: Once she collected it then she flew towards a tree and there she was in the process of making her nest. She continued the process by collecting the tweaks one by one. Few days later when I saw that tree, I was amazed. Simply amazed and that nest was stuck in my mind. What an art..!! Just Beautiful..!! It looked something like this: Now the Question arises where is the clever hack ? What this story is all about?? It’s a natural process and every bird do this. What so special in...